No matter how deep and strong love is a couple will sometimes tend to fight. It is not that they are immature or obstinate, it is just that they are two different people with different perspectives towards life.
FIGHTING RULES FOR COUPLES
- Deal with the problem and finish it
Any argument that is left unfinished will keep on lingering and will disrupt your routine life. Finish up arguments and bury them before going to bed – say sorry to end the argument if need be.
- Stick to the point
Always keep in mind the point due to which the argument started. No old grudges or sore issues from the post should be dragged in. Mark boundaries around a subject and stick to it.
- Avoid foul language
Ensure that you maintain your partners dignity and clearly steer away from any sort of character assassination. Name calling, insulting, blaming, criticism, cursing should be avoided.
- Let your partner speak
The argument shouldbe mutual. It should be more of a dialogue and not the a monologue. It should be kept in mind that your partner also gets an equal chance to voice an opinion.
- No public display of aggression
Do not post updates on social networking sites. It is highly recommended that you should curb the urge of updating your personal life. It may spoil your social reputation.
- Practice apology, peace and love
These three words are golden when it comes to maintaining a relationship. Saying sorry will not only boost your ego but also make you feel proud that you showed maturity to back off. I am sure that your partner will accept your apology and appreciate the gesture.